yes, i am in fact single. but i'm not writhing in agony waiting for mr. perfect... i'm happy and content, and believe that destiny will see to it that love is expressed in a great many ways. that said, it doesn't hurt to look. this isn't really a wish list; i believe that when true love falls out of the sky and hits us on the head, we won't be double checking the details. the heart has it's own funky chemistry. :)

in search of...

21-35ish. [some flex]. what matters most importantly here is the age on the inside.

Prefer a health conscious lifestyle / diet.

ethnicity unimportant. very unimportant, we are all humans first, i'm not interested in labels.

good health, no STDs! drinking and smoking are fine, as long as it's under control.

it would help if he were at least somewhat "out" or at least very aware of his identity.

no longer than 50 miles from asheville. easy justification here; my luck with cars is that you can't even make lemonade out of them.

His interests and mine don't at all have to be the same, just some common ground would be nice. Like spirituality, consciousness, mythos, cultures, etc.

Most importantly, he must be someone whom i can trust, and vice-versa. There's too much deceit in the world! Be who you are, not who you're expected to be! Enjoy life, and be excited by challenges!

I view sexuality as a sacred thing. Not that it should be solemn and droll. on the contrary, it's about joy. It's nature is so special that it should not be abused or routinized not made to be a part of the mundane world

i know that the right man is out there somewhere. i know that someone out there is destined to receive my love, care, and goofiness. it's a simple matter of faith, and i do have plently of that, and patience.

Interested, or just want to chat? mail me!